We know the rules when it comes to touching a stripper. The female strippers get the upper hand, and that is why you can touch male strippers, more info about that topic here.
I believe the male stripper culture is more of a party feel, where you’re paid more upfront for a large party with a higher expectation of a “wow” element.
Female strippers, on the other hand, have to deal with a lot more ordinary day-to-day customers and are usually not well-paid, especially by a single party or person. Therefore you’re generally not allowed to touch them.
As we know, men get aroused when female strippers get on the stage. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said for their male counterparts. They’re there to entertain and make the women laugh as much as possible.
Now you know why you can touch male strippers. The rule didn’t happen by accident; it was well thought out.